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Questions worth asking at your next appointment

I wrote these for my own patients. Print the sections that fit your situation and bring them to any doctor — including me. A visit goes better when the right questions are already on paper.

— Dr. Zuleikha Tyebjee, MD, Board-Certified Family Medicine

Hashimoto's & thyroid

  • Beyond TSH, will you check free T4 — and does my antibody history change anything?
  • Could perimenopause explain why I feel worse even though my thyroid labs are stable?
  • If I start estrogen therapy, when will you recheck my thyroid and adjust my dose?
  • How do you decide whether my weight change is thyroid, hormones, or something else?
  • What symptoms should make me call you rather than wait for the next lab draw?
  • Who is coordinating my thyroid care with my menopause care — you, or nobody?

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After a hysterectomy

  • Were my ovaries removed, left in place, or partially removed — and is it documented?
  • If my ovaries were kept, how will we recognize menopause without periods?
  • Do I need a progestogen at all, given I don't have a uterus?
  • Given my age at surgery, what should we be doing about bone and heart health?
  • Does the reason for my hysterectomy change whether hormone therapy is on the table?
  • What symptoms in the next year would change this plan?

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Early menopause & POI

  • Do my labs actually meet criteria for POI, or is this one borderline result?
  • Should I be tested for causes — autoimmune, genetic, or related to past treatment?
  • What's your plan for my bone density, starting when?
  • What estrogen dose am I on compared with what someone my age typically needs?
  • How does this affect contraception — and what if I still want a pregnancy?
  • Until what age do you recommend I continue hormone therapy, and why?

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PCOS after 40

  • Given my PCOS, when were my glucose, A1c, and lipids last checked — and what's the plan for them now?
  • How will we recognize perimenopause in me, since my cycles were never regular?
  • Does my PCOS change which menopause treatments make sense for me?
  • Is my weight difficulty being treated as insulin resistance, hormones, or both?
  • Should my history of hormonal contraception change how we interpret my current symptoms?
  • What happens to my androgen symptoms — hair, skin — through menopause?

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High blood pressure

  • Is my blood pressure controlled enough to add or continue hormone therapy?
  • Why this route — oral or transdermal — for my situation specifically?
  • How often should I check my blood pressure at home once we start, and what readings should worry me?
  • Could my menopause symptoms be contributing to my blood pressure numbers?
  • How do my blood pressure medications interact with anything you're prescribing?
  • If I lose weight, who adjusts my blood pressure medication — and when?

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ADHD in midlife

  • Could my attention problems be new — or a lifelong pattern that finally ran out of cover?
  • How much of this could be sleep, and what would we fix first to find out?
  • Should my stimulant dose or timing change during perimenopause — and who decides, you or my psychiatrist?
  • Would treating my menopause symptoms plausibly help my focus, and what's the honest evidence?
  • Have we ruled out thyroid, mood, and the other mimics before adding any new label?
  • Who is coordinating between my hormone care and my ADHD care?

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Blood clot history

  • Was my clot provoked or unprovoked — and how does that change my options?
  • Should I be tested for a clotting disorder before we discuss hormones at all?
  • Why would transdermal estrogen carry different risk than pills in my case?
  • Do you want a hematologist's input before prescribing — and if not, why not?
  • Which progestogen would you use with my history, and why?
  • If hormones aren't wise for me, what exactly is the non-hormonal treatment plan?

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Migraine with aura

  • Is the estrogen rule you're applying to me from birth control or from menopausal therapy?
  • Does my specific aura pattern change which options are reasonable?
  • Why transdermal rather than oral, in my case?
  • Could my worsening migraines be perimenopause itself — and will they likely improve after?
  • How do my other stroke risk factors change this decision?
  • Will you coordinate with my neurologist before we change anything?

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After breast cancer

  • Which of my symptom options are compatible with my specific endocrine therapy?
  • For my oncologist: is low-dose vaginal estrogen a conversation we can have, and under what conditions?
  • Am I on the antidepressant that works with — not against — my tamoxifen?
  • What's the plan for my bones while I'm on an aromatase inhibitor?
  • Is my weight change after treatment something we treat medically, and how?
  • Who coordinates between you and my oncology team — and will you actually talk to them?

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GLP-1s + hormones

  • Is there any reason my GLP-1 and my hormone therapy shouldn't be taken together?
  • Should my hormones be transdermal rather than oral while I'm on a GLP-1?
  • What are my protein and strength-training targets while losing weight — actual numbers?
  • Should my bone density be checked, given my age and weight-loss pace?
  • Which of my other medications need watching as my weight drops?
  • Are you managing both prescriptions — or am I the only person who sees the whole picture?

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This page is general education, not medical advice, and printing it creates no doctor–patient relationship. Treatment decisions are made during an appropriate clinical visit.